Fear of power

Perhaps many of us can fear our power to choose.
Here is an example …
“You mean to say if something doesn’t turn out right it was our fault?”

We are always choosing. Even not choosing is a choice.
If we don’t choose where to go next someone else will choose for us.
Don’t you think it is best we choose for ourselves?
I mean who knows what we desire better than us?

Choose what you listen to … what you watch … your friends … what you read … where you go … what you do … what you say … how you feel … what job you want … how you do your job … That’s power.

The bonus is … if something doesn’t turn out the way we thought it would – we can choose again.
With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
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Is there a cost to not living your dream?

What is your dream?
How would you feel to not live your dream?
How would you feel mentally and physically?

Does it really matter to you one way or the other?
For example - How do you feel about the thought of achieving it or not right now?

If you were to not live your dream …
Would you be missing something important in your life?

How would everyone else feel?
Would they be missing something?
Sometimes our dreams affect other people.

Sometimes we need to act no matter what our fears because otherwise the cost is too great.
That said each of us has to decide for ourselves whether we really want the dream we say we do. Because that could change everything right?

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
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The world as we see it

Is it possible two people could see the world in entirely different ways?
Could two people see entirely differently things even in the same situation?
Yes, it is entirely possible.

To one person the world may be a mess, full of things to fear, with bad things happening everywhere they look. Another person may see the world as full of wonder, awe, delightful opportunities, and a very pleasant place to be indeed. Both people will find many events to prove themselves right.

The reason for this is actually very easy to explain. We see and will find whatever we are looking for.

What are you looking for in this world? What are you expecting? I can guarantee you will find it.
Look around in your life. What are you finding around you?
If you like it – bravo! If you don’t – it can all be changed by simply changing your focus or expectation. Choose what you want your world to be like and focus on that.

How do you want to see your world? Expect it and you will find it.
The same goes for dreams. Expect them.

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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Your life is filled with love

So many love and adore you.

Do you let their love in or do you shield it out for fear that they will want something or possibly hurt you? That is no way to live life. Let the love in. It is pure and honest and you will become greater by letting yourself experience it. You are loved. Know it … Believe it … Say it … Affirm it … and most of all enjoy it.

Can you feel it now?

Let the love in and share it yourself when moved to.


With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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Choose from love

We are always free to make our own choices.
Choices made from a place of love are always the most satisfying.
When we choose from fear – this usually only brings more fear.
Choose from a place of love and every day will be your dream life.

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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Erase all fears

I read this on a t-shirt someone was wearing.
Hmm, if we could erase all our fears we would be living dreams much faster.
Often we don’t follow our inspirations because of our fears.
I’m not even going to mention all of them – you know what yours are.

Maybe it’s a new motto we can live with.
Erase all fears… Or dismantle them… We can take away their power.
We can even ask a friend for help.
They are never real anyway. What fears?

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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Can we love our fears?

Our fear is only trying to protect us.
We could give our fear love….

Thank you fear but I am okay. I want to try this. It may not work out but I will never know until I try. I want to thank you fear for trying to protect me. I love you.

We could give our fears so much love that they will all recede with joy.
Now, what did we want to do?
Oh yes, move towards our dream.

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

Now you can join the The Live Your Dreams Coaching Club! We all have a dream and it may be easier to achieve if we don't feel like we are all alone. Join the club that can empower you daily!

I am also available for individual phone coaching sessions, group teleclasses, speaking engagements and other fun and empowering events.

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Change - Do you want to make a move?

Often we fear change. Usually we need change to grow. Interesting dilemma isn’t it? The very change we need to help us live our dreams may be the very change that we fear.

The fact remains that if what we have been doing hasn’t gotten us where we want to go, then we need to do something different. Yep, there it is again - the possibility of change.

Why do we fear change? Is it because it makes us step out of our comfort zone – or because life is easier on auto pilot (even if it is not the best life) – or because change is simply an unknown? We can get nervous; feel anxiety, become anxious, even scared. But once we do it – once we try it - we usually feel wonderful! We feel empowered! We feel amazing!

Should you make a change in your life? Listen to your inner guide – not your head – your heart. It will always guide you to what is right for you.

Change can lead to marvelous things. Even small changes can lead to wonderful things and eventually to wonderful dreams being lived! Why not try one little change today to get into practice?

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick

Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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What is up with self sabotage?

Self sabotage is us, usually trying to protect ourselves from our imagined evils and dangers. We get scared of unknowns and change; it is perfectly normal for most of us in different situations. That is why we have the phrase, “Feel the fear and do it anyway.”

A question: What if there was nothing to fear? What if our life comes with a safe playground? What if we can choose everything that happens to us and all we choose for ourselves is good stuff? I certainly enjoy living like that.

Others may live with the fear, but that is their choice. We can never choose for another, but we can choose for ourselves.

When we say no to self sabotage because we really believe there is nothing to fear as there are only wonderful experiences in life, we start living dreams faster than we could dream of.

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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What fear?

Get this – experts actually talk about both fear of failure and fear of success. Can you believe it? We can be afraid to fail and afraid to succeed? Maybe we should just add fear of life and never leave the house! Are we actually being held back from living our dream life by fear?

What will people say? Will we be rejected? Will we look foolish? Will people talk about us behind our back? ..... The list goes on and on.

Let’s look at Donald Trump. Do you think he has any fears?

Let’s see, he already lost all his money once and came back even richer, he’s been divorced and found love again, invested in all kinds of real estate – in all kinds of markets (making money and losing money), written books, made TV shows, does public speaking engagements … and feels confident to wear his hair any way he chooses. I’d say - no fear.

Maybe that is the secret; try everything and when you live though it – you discover that there is nothing to fear. Do you think he always knew the outcome of his actions? Nope. But it all seems to have worked out.

What if we decided that everything in life always turns out perfectly and that we are perfectly safe in this playground called life? What if we decided we could do no wrong because the only person to please is ourselves anyway? All of a sudden it becomes; fear of what? There is suddenly nothing to fear.

I suggest that by taking the action to live our dream, the fears will disappear. They were never real to begin with anyway.

Look mom – here I go – watch me - no fear! What a dream!

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

For more information see http://www.liveyourdreamscoaching.com

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Eliminate fear with love

We can eliminate a lot of the fear of how to achieve our dream just by focusing on doing what we love.

Have you ever noticed that you usually have no fear when you do the stuff you love?
You don’t even think about it. It gives you pleasure and joy and in so doing brings others pleasure and joy. Like attracts like. You can even attract the perfect mate by doing what you love.

Sometimes to get to our dream or goal we find there are several things we may need to do …. Sales, contact people, bookwork …. you can fill in your blanks. But what part of it do you love? You have to love doing part of it or it would not be your dream. Try focusing on doing only the stuff you love.

The stuff you don’t love? Can you find someone else who loves to do that? Why waste our precious time doing something we don’t love?

We can all be living our dreams when we all focus on doing what we love!
Sometimes things just seem too simple.

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

For more information see http://www.liveyourdreamscoaching.com

Would you like some help so that you can live all of your dreams? I am available for individual phone coaching sessions, group teleclasses, speaking engagements and other fun and empowering events.

Fear of change

Sometimes we decide we don’t really want our dream after all – we say that we have changed our mind. It is always okay to change our mind and decide we want something different – but first we need to check to see how honest we are being with ourselves.

Was the decision based on fear? Fear of the unknown? Fear of change? Fear that a change would be hard for us? Fear of possible failure?

We can deal with any of those fears easily if we are aware that we have the fear. It is when we don’t realize it or don’t admit it to ourselves that it plays havoc with our real dream.

May you always live your dreams without fear.

With great love, Suzanne

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Would you like help releasing fear? I am available for individual phone coaching sessions, group teleclasses, speaking engagements and other fun and empowering events.