What fear?

Get this – experts actually talk about both fear of failure and fear of success. Can you believe it? We can be afraid to fail and afraid to succeed? Maybe we should just add fear of life and never leave the house! Are we actually being held back from living our dream life by fear?

What will people say? Will we be rejected? Will we look foolish? Will people talk about us behind our back? ..... The list goes on and on.

Let’s look at Donald Trump. Do you think he has any fears?

Let’s see, he already lost all his money once and came back even richer, he’s been divorced and found love again, invested in all kinds of real estate – in all kinds of markets (making money and losing money), written books, made TV shows, does public speaking engagements … and feels confident to wear his hair any way he chooses. I’d say - no fear.

Maybe that is the secret; try everything and when you live though it – you discover that there is nothing to fear. Do you think he always knew the outcome of his actions? Nope. But it all seems to have worked out.

What if we decided that everything in life always turns out perfectly and that we are perfectly safe in this playground called life? What if we decided we could do no wrong because the only person to please is ourselves anyway? All of a sudden it becomes; fear of what? There is suddenly nothing to fear.

I suggest that by taking the action to live our dream, the fears will disappear. They were never real to begin with anyway.

Look mom – here I go – watch me - no fear! What a dream!

With great love, Suzanne

Suzanne Marie Bandick
Live Your Dreams Life Coach

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