Tuesday, April 17, 2007

To live it or not to live it ....

To live your dream or not to live your dream - that is the question.

What exactly is your dream? I ask because some are definitely easier to decide on.

Is your dream one that keeps calling to you ever so subtly as you go about your day? Are you getting gentle reminders of something you want to do or achieve? Or is this dream almost developing a life of its own with its own insistence that you listen?

What to do? What to do?

One part of us probably wants to be rational and study the pros and cons. Part of us may appear to be totally irrational and just want to jump in with both feet. Most of us are predominately one way or the other - a little of each is probably best.

First, don't be too quick to dismiss your feelings and your desires - they are guiding you in a certain direction for a reason - you may not even be aware of the reason, but the rewards for following your feelings can be huge. There is a reason this dream has developed within you.

Second, remember that there is never a rush, just as there is never a one time opportunity. Whatever is supposed to happen will happen when you are ready to let it.

Why not try playing with the idea that you are going to do it......how does it feel? What can you see happening in your life as a result of following this dream? Do you like what you see?

Are Gremlins getting in the way telling you all the ways this will never work and you'll die in poverty or something equally horrific to you? OK, now let the rational side of you in ........weigh the pros and cons - maybe you'll find it could maybe work. How does it feel now?

Try baby steps - play what if games - make inquires on what it would take to pursue this dream. You may find doors open that you never knew about. Wouldn't that be amazing?

So choose it or not? Life will go on regardless. The question now is; which life would you be happiest with?

With great love, Suzanne

P.S. For more information see http://www.liveyourdreamscoaching.com/

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